A common situation I see among my male clients has to do with their use of pornography.  Typically, my male client reports that his female counterpart has somehow discovered that he has been viewing pornographic videos or has nude images on his phone.  There are a number of reasons that their partners are upset about it, but men typically don't see what the problem is.  This is such a common issue that I created a page dealing with that very issue.  Please visit Caught Viewing Porn and share your thoughts and experiences.  This isn't about creating a ton of messages, but rather your experiences may save other fellows a lot of grief.